Years ago I spoiled him. I never made plans because I just did what he wanted.
When he bought a Harley did I complain?? NOT!!
Did I go on that 2500 mile trip the first time we got on he bike? YES!!
Did I enjoy it? YES!!
But I learned how toake things work. When it comes time and I need my space I tell him I'm going byyself. And I mean it.
He knows I mean it and I have a good time.
I cook what I want to and we go out if I really don't want to cook. No squaling from either of us.
It works good for us.
He does what he wants to and I get time to do what I want.
What took me so long to think of the solution that was becoming a problem for me.
More later, Linda.