Have you ever been talked into something that you really didn't want to do. A friend just texted me and that's what happened to her. I feel so bad for her. Just want to smother her in hugs.  I remember when I was a kid and didn't have ANY confidence in myself, I was always doing that.  Now I am much better at knowing how and when to say "NO" thank you.
I think the confidence came when I decided to go to college.  And yes I did get my degree when I was 62.  I guess I'm old enough to brag just a little.